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Raising Grateful Children one Act of Kindness at a Time

July 9, 20163 Comments

One of the parenting challenges my husband and I face is to teach our children to be grateful for all we have. We want our children to be aware of international issues and think of themselves as global citizens and not merely be focused on their next Leapad game. Neither my husband nor I came from a wealthy family and certainly never experienced the things our children have unfortunately become too accustomed to- from the overloaded playroom to vacations around the world with stamps that have filled their passports at such a young age. So on a recent family vacation to India my husband and I took the opportunity to show our kids the power and gift of giving back.

 

Orphanage Staff in India

Orphanage Staff in India

Orphanage Manager

Orphanage Manager

Making Food at Orphanage

Making Food at Orphanage

Before taking this trip we began discussing with the kids what an orphanage is, who lives there and why. My children are 6 and 3 years old and the concept was certainly foreign, as they questioned why the orphans’ families couldn’t pick them up. A few days prior to the end of our visit, we took our children to the Vatsalya Shiksha Niketan Orphanage and School near Jaipur. When we contacted the orphanage manager, she shared that the children were lacking cold weather gear and she was concerned as winter was approaching.  So we took our kids to shop at a local market in Jaipur and had them assist us in picking out shoes, scarves, gloves, hats, socks and blankets. Involving the kids in this process was essential because initially they wanted to buy toys and games for the orphans, however as we explained that it was getting cold and they didn’t have winter items I could see the wheels turning in their head as they digested the problem and assisted in purchasing the essentials the orphans needed to make it through the winter.

Meeting the Students

Meeting the Students

The Valtsalya Orphanage is the home for boys and girls from the age of 5 and up. We were surprised to learn that there were young volunteers from Australia and England assisting in the cooking and small projects to enhance their facilities. Additionally, they had an elementary school on site to accommodate the children. One of the impressive programs this orphanage boasts is that they’ve incorporated a “Skill Building” curriculum that educates the teenagers on trades in textile, handicraft, and jewelry making in order to be competitive in the workforce as an adult. The staff was extremely kind and helpful and certainly were special souls for the work they were doing.

Now I have to admit I had high and frankly unrealistic expectations of my children during this visit to the orphanage. I wanted them to see how blessed our family was and have that “Aha” moment. The Aha moment didn’t happen the way I imagined it in my head. Instead my kids, who normally are social butterflies, latched on to me and were afraid to interact with the other children. They were willing to assist in cooking or other projects but did not want to leave my side. At that point I realized they may be afraid of this new situation and I decided to back off and show them how we give back in hopes that next time they will follow suit.

Students in Class

Students in Class

My kids enjoyed giving out the clothing to the children and showed empathy for the living situation and asked tons of questions. That Aha moment may have not occurred but there’s no doubt in my mind that this visit did have a huge impact on them now as children and will continue to impact them as adults.

BCM

Inside of School at Orphanage

Inside of School at Orphanage

Exterior of Orphanage

Exterior of Orphanage

If you’re interested in donating to Vatsalya Orphanage, please visit their website www.vatsalya.org.

 

 

Staff at Orphanage

Staff at Orphanage

 

 

Home Sweet Home

Kitchen Renovation

January 8, 20166 Comments

A few years ago I was assigned to Fort Leavenworth, Kansas for Command Staff and General College. When we first arrived to Kansas City after being stationed in Stuttgart, Germany, (Top 8 worst cities in the world for traffic) I was convinced the zombies attacked because there was zero traffic in the entire downtown. Fast-forward a few months later, my children were picking out pumpkins for the fall season at Carolyn’s Country pumpkin patch. Dropping in at the local farmer’s markets became one of my families favorite past times. Last, my husband and I enjoyed visiting local jazz clubs, ballet and broadway theater. For the first time in all my travels around the world, I felt like I was home.Kansas City has the charm of a small town and the glitz of a large city (minus the traffic and rude people). It was the best of both worlds. I would have never thought that I would settle in Kansas City, but only a few short months after we arrived, I was in love. I could see my children growing up here, going to college and being happy. One of the things I love about Kansas is that people are genuinely kind. I think they should change the Kansas state motto to “Kansas, Kind Folk Live Here!” Thus, the house hunt began. After searching hundreds of houses online and visiting dozens in person, a few days before Christmas, we finally found our home.
Retirement House, Kansas City, KansasRetirement Home, Kansas City, Kansas
Given our short timeline prior to moving overseas, we didn’t have the chance to live in the home. So we took the opportunity to renovate the kitchen, as there was a major flaw that I knew would drive me crazy when we returned to our home. Plus, as an avid HGTV viewer, I learned that you never want to live in a home during Kitchen remodel. Our home was previously owned by a male chef, and I felt the kitchen had some features that were too masculine for my taste. So I wanted to make some changes to warm it up a bit by adding some rustic/vintage accents. Additionally, there was a major issue with the location of the dishwasher, it was too far from the sink. So the first thing we wanted to do was bring the dishwasher closer to the sink. Additioanlly, we wanted to add another oven and build an island for more functionality.

Kitchen Before Renovation

Kitchen Before Renovation

Kitchen before Island

Kitchen before Island

Kitchen prior to Renovation

Kitchen prior to Renovation

Moen Waterhill, oil rubbed bronze two-handle high arc faucet

Moen Waterhill, oil rubbed bronze two-handle high arc faucet

Oven Fan Cover, Kitchen Renovation

Oven Fan Cover, Kitchen Renovation

Some of the aesthetic changes included updating the cabinet and drawer nobs from silver to oil rubbed bronze. We also changed out the sink from a stainless steel to white and upgraded the faucet. We opted to purchase a higher quality faucet for two reasons: they have a lifetime warranty, and since the granite is cut around the exact measurements of the faucet, if there’s a need to replace it in the future, we would have to replace the entire slab of granite. After looking at several brands we decided on the Moen Waterhill, oil rubbed bronze two-handle high arc faucet. This faucet ran at over 900 dollars, however, we paid a little more than half of that because the construction company we utilized had an account with the local Moen vendor, so we were able to get it at a lower cost.

Pottery Barn Lighting, PAXTON GLASS 8-LIGHT PENDANT

Pottery Barn Lighting, PAXTON GLASS 8-LIGHT PENDANT

Next I really disliked the backsplash, as it reminded me of bathroom floor tile, and the pale color washed out the kitchen cabinets. To warm up the room we picked out a backsplash with stone and glass that made the cabinets pop and warmed up the room. Last, I had the construction company fabricate a cover over the stainless steel fan that gave the kitchen some much needed charm.

The biggest challenge we had was the granite. Since we were not completing an overhaul on the kitchen we needed to find an 11-foot granite slab that matched the ones that were currently in our kitchen. Sounds simple enough right? Not so much. We learned that each slab of granite is unique to the location and time it was cut. At the end of the renovation we ended up replacing the entire granite because it was impossible to find one close enough to the ones that were there before. The renovation was painful and took much longer than we expected, however, the results were fantastic! We can’t wait to get home!

Kitchen after Renovation

Kitchen after Renovation

Kitchen Island

Kitchen Island after Renovation

Pottery Barn Lighting and Double Oven

Pottery Barn Lighting and Double Oven

Kitchen renovation, Island

Kitchen renovation, Island

Her Avenue

Six Senses Spa and The Organic Pharmacy

January 1, 20164 Comments

spa 2One of my favorite things to do during what little precious “me” time I have is visiting local spas. The spa and I have been life long friends, as I promise you I’ve visited and tried more than a 100 spas in my military travels. Well, I’m here to tell you that I have discovered the best Spa I’ve experienced thus far, and I had to come all the way to the Middle East to find it! Visiting Six Senses Spa in Sharq Village, Doha is like taking a step back in time, as no details were spared in this hidden jewel of Qatar.

In a typical spa, you normally walk through a walled hallway to a treatment room. At Six Senses, you walk through stone alleyways covered with cloth that gives you a feeling that you’re onboard a Dhow (Middle Eastern Sailboat)  looking up at the sails. The Spa also has the most ornate changing room. Instead of lockers, Six Senses placed old wooden armoires that are carved with intricate designs. The Spa is decorated with clay vases, orient lanterns and water features to set a relaxing ambiance. One of my favorite treatments on their menu is the Moroccan Hamam experience that will leave you feeling like royalty. The Moroccan Hamam experience begins inside of a steam room for a hair treatment. Next is a series of exfoliations using rose petals and dates that will leave your skin softer than it has ever been.

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During my visit at Six Senses I had the pleasure of trying out a 50 minute facial. This facial featured a skincare line by the Organic Pharmacy. The facial began by cleansing my skin using Carrot Butter, which has a heavenly smell and is infused with rosemary, carrot and Shea butter. The neat thing about this cleanser is that you massage it directly on the face without water and it’s removed with a muslin cloth. I loved this product so much that I had to purchase it when I got home. I visited the Organic Pharmacy website and learned that it’s a UK based company founded by Margo Marrone. Margo is a “pharmacist who specializes in herbal medicine, nutrition and well being with a focus on natural and alternate medicine.” Last, I found the following information:

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Made with love in London

We believe beautiful products and services come from the heart. We are so proud that our products are produced in the UK in our own factory where we can ensure complete traceability and quality. Manufactured in small batches we make sure each and every product is perfect.

 

Beautiful Organic Ingredients

We could never make beautiful products without some special ingredients. Naturally our ingredients are certified organic but in addition to being organic we use some very special extracts, over 250 organic medicinal herbs to be precise, but in many products we have our star ingredients, which we use over and over again because they are so fantastic.

If you’re ever in this part of the world, I highly recommend you make time to visit Six Senses Spa. The attention to detail, remarkable spa services and great staff will leave you in absolute splendor. And, if you’re looking for a cleaner skin care line that will leave your face feeling fresh and remarkable, you have to try The Organic Pharmacy.

BCM

Notes:

Six Senses Spa: http://www.sixsenses.com/spas/doha/welcome

The Organic Pharmacy: http://www.theorganicpharmacy.com

*Spa photos provided from Six Senses Spa Qatar website.

Kiss the Cook

Flavors of India with Vicky Kumar

December 27, 2015Leave a Comment

IMG_0678I’m convinced that until my travels to India, my taste buds were numb, or maybe someone just hit the snooze button. After being introduced to real, local foods of India, my taste buds were jolted alive by the collection of tastes, unlike anything I’ve ever experienced.

One of the benefits of traveling is the wonderful people you meet. While in Agra, I met this incredible chef that worked in one of the restaurants in the Marriott hotel, his name is Vicky Kumar. Vicky is the ultimate host! His love for food and great hospitality made us feel so comfortable in the unchartered territory of Indian food.

This food genius introduced me to some of the most incredible dishes. The first and most memorable dish was the Bhelpuri. Vicky referenced it as “street food”. This dish is an Indian snack that is made with puffed rice, vegetables and a tangy tamarind sauce. When I first took a bite, there was this sudden explosion of sweet, sour, spicy and crunchy flavors that over stimulated my numb taste buds. I couldn’t resist as I inhaled this masterpiece. Chef Vicky has been kind enough to share his recipe with me (see below). To my readers, you haven’t lived until you’ve had Vicky Kumar’s Bhelpuri! Sahtan!

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BHEL PURI RECIPE
INGREDIENTS
1 cup of puffed rice 
1/4 cup of finely chopped, deseeded ripe tomatoes 
1/2 cup of finely chopped onions 
1/4 cup of boiled, roughly mashed potatoes 
1 cup of crushed chaat papdi (Flour crispies) 
1.5 cups of sev (Gram flour vermicelli)
3-4 tbsp of green chutney (coriander,chilli & mint sauce)
2-3 tbsp of red chutney (date & tamarind sauce)
1/2 tsp of black salt (or to taste) 
1/2 tsp of chaat masala 
1/2 tsp Deep fried & spiced green peas
½ tsp Deep fried chickpeas & spiced
1/4 cup of roasted peanuts (salted or unsalted) 
1/4 cup of chopped coriander leaves 
1 tbsp of lemon juice (more or less to taste)
Method:
Mix all the ingredients together & add spices..
Garnish with lemon wedge & fresh coriander sprig.
Tamarind Sauce…
Ingredients
⦁ ½ cup tightly packed seedless tamarind
⦁ ½ cup seedless dates
⦁ ½ cup powdered or grated jaggery or as required – adjust as per your taste
⦁ 2 cups water
⦁ ½ tsp roasted cumin powder
⦁ ½ tsp coriander powder
⦁ ½ tsp dry ginger powder
⦁ ¼ or ½ tsp red chili powder or 1 dry red chili * see notes
⦁ black salt or rock salt as required.
Instructions
1. in a pan, take the tamarind, dates and water.
2. cook the tamarind and date for about 8-9 minutes on a low flame till they soften.
3. now add the powdered jaggery and continue to cook.
4. let the jaggery dissolve and the mixture thicken a bit.
5. add all the spice powders – red chili powder, coriander powder, dry ginger powder and roasted cumin powder.
6. stir & simmer for a further 1-2 minutes more.
7. season with salt.
8. let the chutney mixture cool down.
9. in a chutney grinder or small blender, grind the this whole mixture till smooth.
10. add some water if required while grinding.
11. strain the chutney through a strainer.
12. store the tamarind date chutney in an airtight bowl or container in the refrigerator and use it when you make chaat at home.
Notes
* if using dry red chili, add it with the tamarind and dates right at the beginning – step 1
 * please note you can have the consistency of the sweet chutney as per your choice. simply alter the amount of water and make the chutney thin or thick as per your requirement

 

 

The Places You'll Go

Boot Chic Mom Meets Incredible India

December 27, 2015Leave a Comment

Our family has been blessed with the opportunity to visit most of Europe and the Middle East; each country more impressive than the last. However, nothing has made an impact on each one of us as Incredible India.

I have dreamed about visiting exotic India since I was a little girl. The infatuation of India’s vibrant colors, dance and flavorsome menus only amplified with this visit. Now, if you’re thinking of visiting India, let me forewarn you about two things. If you’re looking to tour a cookie cutter, well-kept country, you’re in the wrong continent. Leave those expectations behind, as large regions of India struggle with trash and what western culture would consider poverty. But seriously, get over it! India is not just a country; it’s a life experience.

Our experience began with a flight into Delhi where we received a warm welcome from out tour guide, Raj. We drove to Agra and began our tour with the famous Taj Mahal. IMG_0459More than a decade ago I read a historical fiction book about the story of the Taj Mahal. I don’t know if it’s the love story behind this famous architecture that makes it so memorable or the illuminating white marble that will never leave your memory. The never forgotten love story of the Mughal Emperor Shah Jahan and his beloved wife, Arjumand Banu Begum, a Persian princess that he later named Mumtaz Mahal is the inspiration of the Taj Mahal. Although Shah Jahan had two previous wives, there was no doubt that the love of his life was Mumtaz Mahal, as she would accompany him on all his military campaigns and he trusted her with political and military affairs. She died giving birth to their 14th child and after her death, Shah Jahan went into secluded mourning for more than a year. Later, Shah Jahan built the Taj Mahal as a symbol of the love he had for Arjumand and as her final resting place. The couple is buried at the Taj Mahal to commemorate their eternal love.IMG_0420 IMG_0621

—–Warning, I’m about to go off on a tangent——-

All right Hollywood, there’s no one more appreciative of the dozen movies about Romeo and Juliet than I. But seriously, what about Shah Jahan and Arjumand Banu? Romeo and Juliet left this one little alleyway in Verona (Juliet’s house) that I regretfully have to report has graffiti and gum stuck all over it, was seriously one my my biggest disappointments in life (runner up with Paris). Shah Jahan and Arjumand left behind the Taj Mahal for the love of God! Have no fear Hollywood, I’ve done all the work for you! Shah Jahan can be played by Irrfan Khan (Slumdog millionaire) and Arjuman can be played by the exotically beautiful Aishwayra Rai Bachchan (Pink Panther 2). Now Lights, Camera, ACTION!

—-Ok, I feel better now, back to the topic at hand——–

Our next adventure in India was visiting an elephant farm in Jaipur. By far this was the best family event we’ve ever participated in.  At this farm my children participated in feeding, painting and riding the elephants. It was remarkable watching my two young children get more and more comfortable around a 6 ton animal. Upon arrival, we were instructed to stand in front of an elephant as he placed a flower necklace around our neck and blessed us with his trunk. During this visit we discovered that elephants have an incredible memory and love to eat bananas. I will never forget riding the elephants and my daughter singing Christmas carols at the top of her lungs; or trying to convince my son that he didn’t need to peel the bananas for the impatient elephants. These moments together will forever be engrained in my memory. I have no doubt that my children will remember our encounter with the elephants as well. My son in particular really took a liking to an elephant named Bulbul, to the point that for the rest of our trip we couldn’t pass an elephant on the street (yes, this actually happens in India!) without him shouting, “There’s Bulbul!”IMG_1734

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In Jaipur we also visited multiple palaces where Mughal emperors lived. The ornate and detailed structures still standing today, centuries later. We learned about the architectural differences between Buddhist, Muslim and Hindu structures. But more specifically about how in India all these religions have adopted each other’s art and culture over the centuries of living together.

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We couldn’t leave India without purchasing some souvenirs. We visited a mercantile shop and watched the process of how they make stamped cloths and handmade rugs. I also fulfilled a longtime dream of picking out an authentic Indian Sari. Last, I bought some beautiful Amethyst jewelry and some pieces of art that were painted on rice paper.

Overall, this was a trip of a lifetime. My family was able to connect and enjoy this magnificent culture. We can’t wait until our follow-on adventure to Incredible India.IMG_2016IMG_1191IMG_1984

Military Front

Top 5 Military Moments

October 26, 2015Leave a Comment

#1 Taking Command

I recently hit a milestone in my military career- another year anniversary.  I started reminiscing about some of the most cherished moment thus far, and even though I didn’t have children until almost a decade after joining the military, my mind immediately went to the first major event in the military after I had my daughter: the day I took command.  My daughter was only 8 weeks old at the time and looking back at that moment brings back so much emotion. Ten years ago if someone would have predicted I would be in the military for as long as I have been, I would have thought the comment outrageous.  I also have to admit, I never imagined having children while serving in the military.  I still remember how a few days prior to taking command I went through a rollercoaster ride of emotions and confusion.

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Mother and Daughter at Change of Command Ceremony, Fort Hood Texas.

Women who serve in the military are afforded only 6 weeks of maternity leave, thus my daughter was enrolled and began daycare at 6 weeks old.  And even though the daycare center on base was just across the street from my office, I cried in my car every day for more than a month after dropping off my precious infant. Knowing that no one will ever look after my child as well as a I would, launched a whirlwind of grief and sadness inside my soul.  During this time my newborn daughter was in and out of the hospital because she refused to eat due to a severe case of acid reflux.  As a new mother, I was exhausted from sleepless nights dealing with a colicky child, and to add to the madness, my husband was preparing for a deployment to Afghanistan. A week prior to taking command it all came to a head as I began doubting myself, questioning my priorities and even my capabilities.  This was the first time in my career that the military and the mission were no longer my priority, and frankly I had no idea how to deal with it. I didn’t want to sacrifice my career but I didn’t know how I would cope with the competing demands of my newborn.

So on one nervous day in September, I collected the necessary documents and bravely walked into my Brigade Commander’s office to resign my commission.  I explained to him that I was torn between the decision to care for my daughter and family and the demands of my career, specifically the burdens of a command.  I expressed that I thought the soldiers deserved a commander that would be more focused on the mission and not so much on the homefront.  I asked him to support my resignation and expressed that I did not think I was fit to take command, as I couldn’t make the company a priority over my daughter. I explained to him that just that morning I was late to his formation because on my drive into work my daughter began to cry for a bottle, and given that we were struggling to get her to eat, I pulled over and fed her but was late to formation as a result.  I expected this new brigade commander, with whom I had only worked with a few weeks, to concur and sign my resignation.  I would have never guessed that he would respond the way he did.  His answer to what I thought was a compelling argument to leave the military was the most surprising thing that I had heard up to this point in my career.  He said that my daughter and family should be my priority; pulling over and feeding my child was the right thing to do.  He said he wanted to support me in my command and in being a new mother and that he felt that I was more than capable of balancing both requirements.  He assured me with a little time I would get into a rhythm and things will work out. He guaranteed me I had his complete support.  He cautioned me about making choices that would set precedence for my daughter’s future and he encouraged me to be an example that she would consider when she makes her life choices about career and family.  I was shocked and for once speechless.  This commander’s support for me and my family made me want to work harder and ensure the mission was accomplished.

Knowing that I had my boss’ support to not sacrifice my daughter’s needs for the company’s needs, I implemented some very unconventional command practices.  I put a baby swing in my office, and utilized it when my daughter was ill and could not be at daycare (which would normally have required me to take the day off of work).  She would swing next to me, sitting through training meetings, maintenance meetings, and Tuesday night court.  There were baby bottles and sippy cups in the company refrigerator and a box of toys in the entranceway.  When we had company maintenance issues that had to be resolved after normal work hours, I would pick her up from daycare at the end of the day and she would accompany me to the motorpool and play in her stroller.  During my 18 months as a commander my daughter became well known at the military police station, as she accompanied me on numerous trips to recover soldiers in trouble.  My battery of soldiers watched her grow up from a little infant to a 2 years old toddler.  My having such a young child also forced me to rely on the kindness and advice of the ladies in my Family Readiness Group. I referred to them as my FRG Angels, as they were always ready to assist in any task no matter the sacrifice. They were always welcomed to the orderly room with their own children to talk about a new initiative to support soldiers, their children playing with the same toys my daughter kept busy with.  Halfway through my command I gained a young sergeant who was a single mother with several children one of which was an infant.  I followed in my commander’s footsteps and bestowed the same opportunities and understanding that were offered to me. The result: an extremely dedicated woman ready to support in any mission and a ridiculously organized orderly room that was tightly ran.

Being a new mother changed me as a leader.  In a prior life as a woman with no children this is how I would have responded to a Soldier’s request such as this (ladies, I’m sorry to report that unfortunately most leaders with no children think along the same lines):

Soldier: Ma’am, I need to come into the office late because my daughter has a doctor’s appointment.

Me in a prior life: Why can’t your wife just deal with it?

Soldier: She would like me there.

Me in a prior life: Well I need you here, tell her to figure it out! 

So…there I was at my daughter’s first well-baby appointment from hell.  I was alone, trying to fill out what seemed like dozens of pages of paperwork about bowel movements and medical history (how can an 8 week old baby have a medical history?!?) All this as I was simultaneously cleaning up spit, removing my daughter’s clothes and trying to keep her warm.  She’s crying, I’m trying to listen for my number, and she is screaming for a bottle but the doctors want her in a dry diaper.  I’m trying to keep my cool, wiping off the vomit and the lovely aroma it left behind off my uniform.  At the end of that appointment as I was seriously considering crawling into the fetal position and calling out for my mommy, I thought…ok Karma, you’ve made your point…I hear you loud and clear!!!

I don’t know if taking command shortly after having my first child and deciding to remain in the military was the best decision.  I don’t even know that continuing to serve after my second child was any better of a decision, but I do know that being a parent and enduring the challenges of motherhood has made me a more understanding and compassionate leader and has forced me to think of unconventional solutions to many military problems.

BCM

 

Parenting Chronicles

My Live-In Latin Boyfriend

October 15, 2015Leave a Comment

Alright ladies, you all know what I’m talking about.  We’ve all had one at some point in our girlfriend careers. The handsome Latin boyfriend that dotes on your every whim and makes you feel that you’re the most beautiful creature that walked this earth. The one that would quickly turn from the indulging boyfriend to the overbearing jealous green monster that rears his ugly head towards any man who dares take any of your time or attention.

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Women would agree that there’s this special bond between boys and their mothers.  My son is no exception.  When I get dolled up for an evening out he’s the first to compliment with “Mommy you look like a pwincess!” or “Mommy I wove your dress!” He’s the first to notice when I have my nails done and the first to light-up when I walk in the door from a long day at work. Consequently, I’ve transformed into a bowl of mush and needless to say he not only has me wrapped but double knotted around his chubby little finger!  However, my sweet little boy can quickly turn into a jealous little man at the first sight of competition. The war on the home front lies between the two men in my life, my husband and son.  I’ve watched my son steal the last kiss as I leave for work, come cuddle with me when he senses his father getting too close, and the most recent dispute over who’s going to marry mommy has filled many of our dinner conversations.  When my husband informed my three year-old son that I’m already taken, the tears in his eyes swelled up with betrayal as he shouted, “No Daddy, she’s my Mommy!” I’ve watched my son battle it out with my husband on Skype when he laid down the law about sleeping next to mommy. At times I feel as though I’m reliving my twenties, except this time the Latin jealous boyfriend has moved in!

With all of his compliments and his doting, he certainly lets me have it when he doesn’t get his way; this is a sample conversation:

Me: Son, you cannot watch anymore television

Son: Why?  I want to watch TV

Me: No, it’s time for bed

Son: I don’t wove you anymore Mommy!

Me: Well I will always love you

Son: Mommy you’re not sweet, and you not bootifull and you don’t look like a pwincess!

Me: No response, I walk away

1-2 minutes pass. Storm of tears…

Son: I sorry Momma, I wove you, you are sweet and bootiful and you do look like a pwincess! Can you take me to bed?

I’ve been warned by some mothers that this will pass.  I’m not looking forward to that gloomy day, but until then I will cherish these moments and hold on to them as long as he will allow me to. I love you my little Latin man!

BCM

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Hello world!

October 14, 2015Leave a Comment

Hello, I’m Boot Chic Mom.  Thanks for visiting! I’m an Arab American, a mother of two, and an active duty US military officer currently stationed in the Middle East. In this blog I’m writing about my life experiences in a combination of cultures, both from a world view and from within the military subculture. I created this blog to try to show a perspective that very few others experience and fewer have written about.  I hope you enjoy reading my posts as much as I enjoy sharing these tidbits from my life.

BCM

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